6 Things Younger Women Expect When Dating an Older Man

Meeting a younger woman you want to date is a big step towards creating a relationship you want. That’s one hurdle done, but now the time comes for your first date. When you’re taking a young woman out on that big first date, what should you do? Here are some tips on what a younger woman expects on the first date with an older man. the first date with an older man

1. Take Her Somewhere Classy

When a young woman dates someone her own age, it usually involves going to the movies, a nightclub, or a neighborhood hangout. When she dates an older man, she expects something different, and this is your chance to make a great impression on the first date. Take her somewhere classy, that younger guys would never choose. It could be an upscale restaurant, a gallery opening, or a charity event. Whatever you choose, give her a special experience that she’s not used to.

2. Act Confident

One of the things that younger women dating older men like is that mature men have more experience in life. They expect an older man to act and speak with confidence. After all, you are more experienced in many matters than she is, and that’s one of the reasons she wants to be with you. When you’re driving to the restaurant, tipping the valet, and ordering the wine with dinner, act confident.

3. Act Mature

Another reason that many young women prefer to go out with older men is that they act more mature than younger guys. Some young men are loud, brash, rude, and always act like they’re at a frat party. As an older man, a woman will expect more from you. No matter what happens, play it cool. Stay calm, keep your temper, and generally act like the mature man you are.

4. Be a Gentleman

Sometimes it seems that manners have disappeared in modern society. Many young men don’t know how to be polite and treat a woman well. For older men dating younger women, this is where you have an advantage. Act like a perfect gentleman on your first date. Open the car door for her, pull out her chair, and compliment what she’s wearing. Brush up on your manners, and you’ll make a good impression.

5. Show Her Respect

When you’re dating a younger woman, especially one who is very attractive, it is likely that she has been treated as an object by many of the men she encounters. When you take the time to listen to her and show her some respect, she will love the attention. Make her feel like you are interested in her as a person, not just a sex toy, and she appreciate you for it.

6. Pay the Bill

Many people assume that the only reason a younger woman wants to date an older man is because of money. Though this is a factor in some cases, it is certainly not the only reason. However, since you are older than her, and are likely to have a better financial situation, she does expect you to pick up the bill on that critical first date.

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How do older men find younger women?

With the increasing trend over recent years of older men seeking younger women, I often get asked several key questions. how to older men find younger women

Firstly, many people ask me: what is it about dating younger women that attracts older men? Another favourite question is: why do so many older men these days appear to be looking for younger women? Is it something to do with the world we live in today, a world of instant communications, a world of easier access to all other parts of the world, than ever before?

Yet out of all the questions I am frequently asked, perhaps, the most common one is: how do older men find younger women?

It’s not that a straightforward answer as, whilst there are many ways to achieve the goal of meeting younger women, some ways will, obviously, be more effective than others. So, let’s consider some of the preferred ways older men can find younger women:

  • Probably the most effective way to find young women is by signing up to a reputable dating website; one which clearly has a track record and a good reputation, and is able to demonstrate that it has large number of members and potential candidates.

This way, obviously, lets both parties check out each other’s background; their needs and wants; likes and dislikes. Also, given that everyone on the website is clearly looking for a partner, this can eliminate potentially embarrassing mistakes in the courting process; and older men looking for younger women can feel more relaxed and comfortable during the initial stages of getting to know each other.

With Skype and other video tools it’s also possible for older men seeking younger women to chat in real time and see their potential girlfriend or wife on camera.

  • Another effective way for older men looking to date younger women is to attend one of the increasingly popular, social events which are specially devised for age-gap couples to attend and meet others of a similar mind. Again, for older men seeking younger women, these events are ideal opportunities for like minded people to get together. The chances at such meetings of misinterpreting the intentions or requirements of younger woman are reduced as both parties will have had the chance to study potential partner’s details in advance.

Often, such events may involve dinner, dancing and general social interactions—all ideal for the older man looking for younger women.

  • Naturally, there are a number of other ways for older men seeking younger women to meet the partner of their dreams, but most of these generally have less chances of success—and more chances of the older man seeking younger women to misinterpret intentions, make mistakes and so on. In any event, such ways include going to bars and restaurants, or even nightclubs, where younger women congregate; meetings at work; introductions by friends, etc.

Suffice to say, as with any dating rituals, when older men are looking for younger women, it’s best to stay with a tried and tested way to try and achieve success. Clearly, it’s up to the individuals concerned but, for older men wanting to date younger women and obtain a life partner, a reputable dating service seems to meet all requirements!

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Why do younger women like older men?

It is impossible to deny that younger women find older men much more attractive and interesting – one just has to look around to find almost every other couple defying the age difference and committing to long term relationships.younger women like older men

Not to mention that these relationships last much longer as compared to the ones with men and women in the same age group. But what is it that works for these couples? Why is it that the age difference acts as a positive force and not a negative one when it comes to love between younger women and older men?

For starters, seeing an established, well settled man tells a woman all she needs to know about a man’s success and drive – two qualities that never fail to build an instant attraction.

Also, the experiences of the added years mean they do have a lot more answers than a boyfriend of the same age. To be able to talk to your partner not just as a lover but also as an adviser is an invaluable asset for a woman in a relationship.

Older men are also typically better behaved and handle situations much better, so that their lady never has to worry about getting into an unnecessary argument with strangers. Too many young women complain about childish behavior of their significant others of the same age, a problem which gets almost completely resolved when they choose to be with older men.

Also, given that older men are more secure both in their life and career; they are more willing to give their lovers all the freedom in the world. They do not start sulking just because their girl was talking to a guy at the bar. They have been there and know it is nothing to be jealous of. This makes women feel more confident of the relationship while also increasing their respect for a man who is understanding and not dominating.

Not to mention that older men are more willing to sit down to discuss situations rather than throw a tantrum and take a fight as an insult to their ego. A woman cannot explain in words just how relaxing it is for her to know she doesn’t have to massage her man’s ego every other day!

Older men are also thoughtful to a fault and take special care to make their lovers feel like a million dollars. Whether it is buying flowers to brighten up a dull day or cooking a special dinner or remembering all the important dates – they know how to make her happy – because they have been through their share of relationships to know what is important.

Older men are also a source of emotional stability and handle crisis situations very well. Also, more and more men are taking good care of themselves by eating healthy and staying fit through regular exercise as they grow older. They look great, have established careers and possess high intelligence and emotional quotient – what else could a woman ask for in the man of her dreams?

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younger women looking for older men in Houston

Today’s article was inspired by one of my readers named Cindy from Houston Texas. She writes, “I am so tired of dating guys my age (mid 20s), they only seem to be interested in partying and having sex.” “Where can I find a guy that is ready to settle down and be serious about a relationship?” younger women looking for older men in Houston

Contrary to popular belief, studies show a lot of women have this complaint about men in their 20’s from Houston. They are either too clingy or too immature to focus their time and energy on one woman. In fact, that is exactly why you will find a ton of younger women looking for older men in Houston.

That’s right, you heard me correct, younger women dating older men is fairly common in Houston for the following reasons:

  • Older Men in Houston Are Financially Stable

He may not be a millionaire, but you certainly won’t have to worry about asking if he wants you to pay the dinner bill. He has a retirement, 401K, and stock options. His house and cars are paid off and he has more money than he knows what to do with it.

  • He is Not Focused On A Career

Houston dating is different than dating in other cities across the US. Older men in Houston are more interested in spending quality time with you rather than focusing on a career. Most of them grew up on a ranch or farm and have learned to rely on God’s green Earth to provide for them. They like the simple things in life so you won’t have to compete with an Ipod, Iphone or any other Igadget. All of his attention and love will be on you.

  • You Don’t Have To Make Decisions

Contrary to the indecisive younger men you are accustomed to dating, younger women are dating older men in Houston because they know how to make decisions. They know exactly what they want, where to take you out to eat, what to buy you, and how to turn you on. He is an experienced bachelor that takes all the guess work away.

  • Sex Will Be Amazing

He may not be as kinky as he used to be, but he will certainly know which buttons to press in order to make your body melt. He knows his way around your lady parts and can keep you satisfied as long as those little blue pills keep working. Houston dating will never be the same after you have made love to an older man.

  • He Will Respect You

Older men is Houston have high morals and values. You can rest assured he will respect you and treat you just as good as he treats his mother. He was taught to treat others how he wants to be treated and will never stray from these teachings.

If you haven’t figured it out by now, the solution to your problem is simple, Ms. Cindy. You need to find an older man. Now, you may be wondering where in the world can I find older men that possess all of these qualities and are looking to date?

Well, today you are in luck. I have the perfect solution for you. It is called Ageless Hook Up. This is the absolute best place for younger women older men dating in Houston. I highly encourage you to give it a try.

Thanks so much for reading and I look forward to hearing from you again soon!

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Child Lover

Child lover, born with a rose in her hair
She seemed to be alive without a care
He wanted to pluck the rose from her hair
She coyly smiled at him behind her rosy lips
She liked a man like this
He was little boy blue from the fire and sea
He was all I ever wanted to see
His blonde hair cascaded all over me
It was like an ocean of yellow, he was so delicate and mellow
His fingers stretched on and on, he is my little fawn
He stroked at my skin at dawn, while the dew covered it
Beads of sweat and water, rolling off of my petals
He waited for them to drop into his open waiting mouth, tongue under them now
His blue eyes flickered to me; ask for me, all of me
Give all you can give of thy, they said
I let out a sigh, I let out a gasp
I wanted to be in this mans grasp
He twirled his fingers in my hair, we shouldn’t be doing this without a care
I am a child lover in his hair, it smells of vanilla and snow covered pears
His skin was raw and white, like snow crunching under my ballerina shoes
I took it between my teeth and tugged it so it bled its release
I wanted him in my little girl hands, gripping and clawing
I was a greedy little princess, covered in cotton candy
He was a man, delicate and scratchy
He smelled of old leather and cigarette smoke
I was always his lover, his little girl
I was a child and a wanted more
Roses in my hands as I let the petals fall
I started to giggle, I wanted them all
I wanted his candy heart and the way he called me a tart
His deep baritone giggles and the way he made me wriggle
Our love is eternal, our love is infernal
Burning me right up, I am so hot under his touch
Jeweled and daisy fresh as I am, all I wanted was his big hands
Run them over my peaches, caress all of my leeches
I’ll be your little girl love, covered in pomegranate juice
I never wanted to be set loose
Give me your love or give me the noose
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I am 21 and my husband is in his 40s. <3

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Why are older men looking at women half their age?

It’s been a week of gloomy thoughts about what one applicant called “the packaging”. In fact, he wasn’t an applicant. He wrote specifically to tell me he wasn’t. “It’s a shame I don’t fancy you,” he said, “because otherwise you tick all the boxes.” Another said I sounded nice, but added: “Though unfortunately I have stringent physical criteria.”

older Men with two women in bikinis

There seems to be a gender imbalance, vis-a-vis the packaging thing. All the women I know are tolerant of middle age showing itself in a chap. We quite like a late flowering, in fact: the silvering, the smile lines, the coming of bodily sturdiness. We read these as signs that life has been lived and enjoyed. We read them as indicators of substance, of being substantial. In general, men don’t seem to grant us the same courtesy, at least not the men I meet online. They are highly focused on the packaging. It’s disheartening.

“I bet you were gorgeous when you were young,” I was told recently, via message, like that was supposed to be a compliment. Yes, I was gorgeous, ish, for a while, and self-absorbed, and shallow, and inexperienced, and over-sensitive and dull. You’re right, mate, you’d have much preferred me then.

I’ve been thinking a lot about this. What does it mean to us, as women, to be told that we’re worth less than we used to be? No man I know has ever been told that his powers, his allure, his charm have faded, and that he has to face up to that redundancy. Many women I know in their 50s talk about their invisibility in public places. I’m sure a case could be made for invisibility as a liberating force in a woman’s life, but I am not the woman to make it, not this week at least, when I’ve been dissed or else flatly ignored by all the men I’ve said hello to.

It’s making me a bit rebellious, I admit. It’s making me want to look 50, and talk about 50, and stand firm with a whole movement of women, rejecting the pressure to try to look 35 for ever, throwing away our foundation garments and hair dye. I get these impulses and then I buy another stupid snake-oil anti-ageing cream.
It’s true that men don’t see me any more. It’s sobering to walk down the street observing how the 50-year-old men behave, paying attention to what they’re looking at as they stroll along. They are not looking in shop windows. They are not looking at me. They are looking at women half their age.

I spoke to my friend Jack about this.

“Men online are the same,” I told him. “They say they’re after true love but really what they’re after is the 25-year-olds.”

“Maybe they think they can have both,” Jack said.

“You’re not like that, though, are you? Given a choice, you’d pick the older, more interesting woman, the passionate, well-read, intrepid, low-maintenance woman.”

“Nice of you to think so,” Jack said. “But I’d go for the firm arse and tits, always, without question.”

I expressed mild disgust.

“You just have to face facts,” he said. “Men are extremely visual creatures; we respond visually and we can’t help it. Well, we could probably help it, but we don’t want to. Online dating is giving these idiots the impression that they can snag a honey. Most of them have no chance, of course. Don’t you look at the 25-year-old men in the street?”

‘I don’t. Honestly. They have mothers of my age, so it’d be like randily pursuing the children of your friends. There’s something inherently unsexy about that whole set-up.”

“Sexy as hell.”

“It’s the 55-year-old, slightly rumpled silver foxes that I stare at, the tall well-travelled well-used ones. But they don’t see me.”

“Perhaps you should wear brighter colours.”

I looked down at myself. “I like navy blue. What’s wrong with navy blue?”

“These are just facts. Men like youth. They like long hair. They like colour. They like slender, as well. Sorry. You’re going to have to lose weight and grow your hair and wear red if you want the silver foxes to see you.”

The question is, should I be prepared to change?

Know more: http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/feb/21/why-are-older-men-looking-at-women-half-their-age

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Relationships and Age Difference

A lot of people may say that age is a state of mind, that a person is only as old as they feel. That is an upbeat and optimistic approach to aging; however the question is if that applies when it comes to relationships. It has quite often been acceptable for a male to be the older person in a relationship. Some issues can arise if the opposite happens; a younger man and an older woman. In addition, there can be some issues as well, if the male is many years older than the female. It is possible to have a secure and loving relationship in which there is an age difference, if both people involved understand certain issues that may arise and they can work together to resolve them.

The most important factor to understand is that although our bodies will show our age to a certain degree, age is most significant when it relates to maturity. Whether you find yourself to be the younger or the older person in a relationship, take into account whether your maturity levels match. You may find in life that a fifty year old and a thirty year old can be very similar in regard to their maturity level. This all depends on their life experiences, personal outlooks and goals.

One dynamic that can make or break a relationship is the common ground that you share with the other person. Most people will undoubtedly get along with someone who has similar interests and hobbies. A night owl versus a morning bird will certainly not be in sync with each other. The same theory holds true for interests. While it is healthy to have some of your own personal interests, it is very helpful to the relationship that you share time together doing things that you both enjoy. Think about whether the age difference will affect activities done together; whether they be hiking, skiing or watching movies, these times spent together will keep the relationship strong.

Another aspect to consider is if the age difference will interfere with your own personal goals. Whether you want to concentrate on your career, have children or spend your free time traveling; ask yourself if your partner?? Issues age difference agrees with your way of life. Discuss the future, not just the present situation. Some topics to consider are finances, children, retirement goals and career choices. You may find it very useful to choose a time to sit down and seriously talk about how the age difference may affect your lives one year, five years and possibly twenty years down the road.

Most importantly, if you and your partner feel you are right for each other, age will not matter. We all begin our quest for love as young adults and we live with the intention of holding strong into our senior years. If two people are lucky enough people find each other, it usually will not matter at which point in life they do so. When it comes to love, age is just a number.

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