English Couple With 38-Year Age Gap Still Together After 13 Years Of Marriage

When they met, she was just 16 years old and he was a 54-year-old divorced dad of three.

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Nicola, now 29, and Joe Philpot, 67, often get mistaken by locals for grandfather and granddaughter.

According the Daily Mail, when they fell in love, the 38-year age gap caused a huge

backlash from their families and led to Joe, who is a grandfather, being branded as a pedophile.

Despite major obstacles, Nicola and Joe are still together after 13 years of marriage and proud parents to Felicity, 12, Cody, 8, Thomas, 10, and Lilly-Rose – who was born 11 months ago.

Both of them insist they still have an active sex life, even though Joe suffers from angina and arthritis.

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“Even though Joe’s more than double my age, he’s so full of energy,” Nicola said. “He might have 10 teeth missing and a bit of a pot belly, but he’s absolutely gorgeous to me.”

Nicola, of Chigwell in Essex, England, met Joe when her bicycle broke down on her paper round one day, the Mirror reported.

“My friend Robert helped me finish then took me round to his Uncle Joe’s so he could fix my bike. I’m so glad I went,” she said.

“He seemed fun and would play my favourite 60s music like the Bee Gees. I knew I wanted to be with Joe – it didn’t feel weird, it felt right.”

Nicola moved in with Joe just two weeks after admitting their feelings for each other.

She gave birth to Felicity one year later and a year after that the couple tied the knot.

“A lot of people didn’t agree with our relationship. When we first went out, people would call Joe names – like paedophile,” Nicola said.

“My family stopped talking to me and all but one of Joe’s children cut all ties with him. It caused a huge rift but I’d never been so happy in my life.

“It was upsetting that I didn’t have the support of my family but Joe and I were just a normal couple in love and we wanted to be together no matter what.”

She added: “Mum still doesn’t approve and I hardly speak with any of my family now. I don’t see what their problem is.”

The full-time mother said she and Joe have a perfect family.

“Joe’s a great dad and still has plenty of energy to play with them,” Nicola added. “He’s young for his age and I tend not to think about what will happen in the future.”

“I’m just as in love with Joe as the first day I met him-we now hope to save up money to renew our wedding vows very soon.”

“If people disapprove of us, it’s their problem, not mine,” Joe said

Authors Verdict: Many younger women  looking for older men, mainly because older guys are relatively more successful in career and understand better how to treat their women. Many couples with age gap work out fine and get alone splendidly.

Read more: http://www.opposingviews.com/i/society/english-couple-38-year-age-gap-still-together-after-13-years-marriage

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Top Dating Tips For Older Men Dating Younger Women

Younger women have a different vibe from older women. Sure, they are physically younger so they tend to look better but we are not talking about just arm candy here. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you, making you feel younger in return. There are a lot, and I mean A LOT, of older guys that like to date younger women. It has become more socially acceptable and you see it all the time. What is more, there are more younger women who like to date older men. They tend to mature more rapidly than guys their own age so most often they get tired of the boyish, immature behavior. They want someone who will treat them like a lady. You know, a real man. It is not that hard to date younger women but before you get out there and start looking, here are some tips to help you out.

  • 1. What Younger Women Are Looking For

Why do younger women date older guys? For the maturity, stability, and sense of security that it gives them. They like a guy to be able to take care of them and make them feel safe. Young guys are sometimes too concerned about themselves and trying to act cool. Not all younger women like those kind of games. So they are looking for a guy who is confident and secure in his life. They are looking for a guy who knows how to treat a lady right and puts her first.

  • 2. Give Her Your Full Attention

If you want to date a younger woman, you have to be prepared to give her your full attention. If she wanted a guy that was more into himself, she would date someone her own age. As an older guy, you need to listen to her, look her in the eye when she is talking. Don’t glance around the room or be involved in something else. Ask her what she thinks about some topics. This will let her see that you value her opinion and that you are not just dating her for her looks. By giving her your full attention you let her know that she is a priority and that you value her company.

  • 3. Don’t Be A Sugar Daddy

There is always someone who thinks that the reason a young woman is dating an older man is because she wants a sugar daddy. While the gentlemanly thing to do is to pick up the tab for the date, don’t go all out all the time by buying her expensive gifts and every little thing she may want. Yes, most women like a man who is financially established but you do not want to make it seem like you are trying to woo her with money. It is okay to show off your finances a little but keep it under control

On the same note, be wary of young women who are actually looking for a sugar daddy. Most often these types of women will have high maintenance tendencies and want someone to be their bank roll. These women are a heart break waiting to happen. They are more likely to deplete your bank account and be unfaithful. All they are interested in is your money and once that is gone, they will move on to someone else.

  • 4. She Is Not Your Daughter

When dating younger women, you should treat them with respect and as an equal. Even if they are young enough to be your daughter, you don’t want to treat them as such. A big mistake is to talk down to them or lecture them as you would a child. You are not there to provide a role model and show how much more mature you are than her. To have a good relationship with a younger woman, you should act as if they are an adult and just as mature as you are. Even if they make some mistake that you probably made when you were that age or act in a way that you use to act, don’t lecture. Let them grow on their own. Studies have shown that people in a relationship with someone older tend to mature at a faster rate than others their age. So as long as you act in a mature enough fashion, she will likely adapt quickly.

  • 5. Don’t Try To Act Younger

This is a very common mistake that many older men make. They think that if they act younger, they will attract younger women. This could not be the furthest from the truth. A younger woman is going to go out with you because you are older and (hopefully) more mature. Don’t try to change your appearance or mannerisms to match the younger generation. You certainly shouldn’t try to use the current slang when you talk. It can make you seem ridiculous like you don’t want to accept your age or something. Stick to what makes you comfortable. The best rule of thumb in any relationship is to be yourself.

  • 6. Don’t Interfere

Another common mistake older men make when dating younger women is they try to interfere with the woman’s personal life and affairs. They try to get involved in every aspect of the woman’s life or try to take some measure of control over it. Big mistake. Young women like their freedom. They like to go out with their friends and be independent. Yeah, they would probably appreciate you changing the oil in their car for them but don’t even think about trying to go out for drinks with her and the girls. Give her enough space and don’t smother her.

  • 7. Take The Lead

When the two of you do go out, take the lead and be in charge. That is one of the reasons younger women like older men. They like a man with confidence who knows what he wants. As long as the woman is okay with it, make the decisions for the date. Decide where you are going to go, which restaurant you are going to eat at, and any social events that you might want to attend. Introduce her to your friends and peers with no hesitation. Treat her like the night is all about her. One thing you can do occasionally is a surprise date where the woman doesn’t know where you are going (although it should be something special). As long as your date is okay with you being ‘the man’ in public, then do it.

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Top Dating Topics For Older Men Dating Younger Women

For gentlemen of a mature age, younger women often seem like a sweet mystery. What do they talk about? What do they care about? What do they want and expect in life? A knowledge worth millions for gentlemen who are interested in dating younger ladies.

A recent British study had a closer look at younger women’s online profiles on lifestyle platforms and online dating services and examined what really matters to them. The focus was set on women between 20 and 35. And the results are rather interesting.

In summary one could say: Girls just wanna have fun. Yes gentlemen, Cindy Lauper got it right from the start. Today’s young women find it extremely important to enjoy life to the fullest. That implies making life as easy and comfortable as possible. Elements of such a life are therefore: a good education, a successful career, financial independency and a stimulating and inspiring social environment.

All the cliches were confirmed, they love meeting their friends, they love shoes, they love handbags, they love shopping, clubbing, wellness, girls talk, movie nights with ice cream, handsome gentlemen and long walks on the beach.

To be truly satisfied in life, 56% need a regular holiday and go to places they never visited before. Getting away from it all to fully relax, contemplate and form new ideas is an essential part of being happy to them.

Another vital point to mention is independency. Young women don’t want to be told what to do, or where to go, they know it perfectly well themselves. This also includes a good education and the constant desire to learn and develop further. But before we get the wrong impression of young ladies being superficial and materialistic, it has to be said that there is much more to their goals and dreams in life.

80% of the young women write in their profiles that life is not the same without a stable and happy relationship. They want to share life with a man they can trust, rely on and have fun with.

Interestingly enough, over 50% of the girls preferred an older man as a partner. They agree that younger men are not (yet) able to understand them enough to make them happy. Older gentlemen are better partners they said, because they are experienced, classy, caring and financially independent. This was mostly the case.

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How To Find and Keep A Younger Woman

Finding a younger woman you truly love when you are in your 50s or older is hard enough,      but what worries most of the older gentlemen with much younger partners is how to make her happy and keep her.

Surveys revealed the fact that the number one reason why couples with age difference split up is jealousy. And that is no surprise. Younger women are attractive, in the prime of their life and often extremely sociable with a lot of hobbies and friends. It is therefore easy to understand that her older partner is worried about her cheating or leaving him for someone else, someone younger. Which is why mutual trust is the most vital element of such a relationship. The older gentleman has to trust her that she chose him, because she wants to be together with him and nobody else. He has to believe that there is no reason for her to leave or cheat at all.

And this leads to the next logical issue, the older man should make an effort to avoid giving her any reason to think about leaving or cheating. According to the above mentioned surveys, young women leave their older partners often because the men changed tremendously within the first 2 years. The young ladies said that their partner made a huge effort when they were dating and in the first year of the relationship, but after a while they got lazy, worked too much and weren that interested in their girlfriends anymore.

No matter how old the partner we love, he or she should never ever be taken for granted. There are always two sides of a story and in a relationship each partner has to make an effort. Good looks, attractiveness, interest, tolerance, social contacts and events, a good sex life and so on, these things don’t stay great by themselves, they have to be watered and fed like a sensitive plant to grow beautiful, healthy and durable.

The next main reason why younger ladies leave their older partners is a lack of mutual interests. A big age difference can mean a big difference in interests and hobbies as well. The couple has to make an effort to share things. Establishing mutual hobbies and rituals is an important thing to maintain the close connection to each other. Growing apart happens fast and often unnoticed.

Last but not least, honesty and truthfulness are among the most vital values of a successful relationship between younger women and older gentlemen. Tension and fights can be nipped in the bud by telling the other person everything and listening to the others concerns and fears.

Whatever the case, keeping a younger woman happy should never feel like a fight or something the older man has to make a lot of sacrifices for. If it does over a longer period of time, however, it is most likely that the relationship was not meant to be.

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Top 10 Classic Tips Of Romance – Age Gap Dating

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  •  Spread rose petals all over the bedroom.
  •  What could be more classic than a fine gold locket with your photo inside? (Maybe a photo of the two of you.)
  • Bring home one small, unexpected gift each week.
  • Write a classic, romantic, passionate, handwritten, heartfelt love letter. Most adults haven’t written a love letter since high school. (Why not? Have we lost our youthful idealism, or have we just gotten lazy?)
  • When traveling, give your partner a bouquet of roses; one rose for each day that you’ll be away. Attach a note that says something like this: “These three roses represent the three days I’ll be away from you. They also symbolize the love, joy, and laughter we share together.”
  • Say “I love you” at least three times a day.
  • Guys: Surprise her by performing one of her chores for her. (And not something easy like carrying the groceries in from the car, but something that requires some time and effort — like cooking all the meals over a weekend, or cleaning the entire house.)
  • Ladies: Send him a letter sealed with a kiss. (Use your reddest lipstick.)
  • Hold hands.
  • On your yearly romantic checklist, make plans for Valentine’s Day — well in advance!

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